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The Empty Nest: What to Do When Your Kids Leave For College

It’s one of those rites of passage which affect every parent at some point. Sure, it can be tough dealing with all the emotions involved. This is something which is such a big moment for both you and them. So it is important to remember that it’s perfectly natural to feel a little sad. However, there are some things you can do to help both of you get through this difficult stage. If you are in this position at the moment, read on for some tips on how to make it a little easier.

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Talk It Out

It’s really important that you both sit down and just talk through it. There are lots of emotions involved in the process, and it’s best just to get them out on the table. At first, your child may well not want to talk about it. There is every chance that you won’t either! However, as with everything, it really is best to talk about it. Remember that this is a huge moment in both your lives. The best thing you can do is to support each other as fully as you feel able to. Your kid is probably a little scared about leaving home, so comfort them. Likewise, let them know that you’ll miss them. They might want to hear it!


Get Some Help

Depending on your situation, and what you are both like, you might like some help. This help can come in many forms. First of all, if you feel like you need counselling, then don’t be afraid to seek it out. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Plenty of families do this at this particular point in life - it is more common than you might think. But you might also need some help with some of the other aspects of the college process. You could enlist the help of Vault Prep, for example, to help with the entire admissions process. Even having help with this side of things can make a huge difference to how you both feel about it. Your family may well be a lot happier as a result.


Say Goodbye

The whole process of saying goodbye can be particularly tough. That final goodbye can be really heartbreaking. For that reason, it’s important that you don’t draw out the goodbyes. Doing so can make the whole thing so much more painful for both of you. Make it as quick and painless as you can, like ripping off a plaster. Allow the tears to flow, sure, but don’t dwell on it too much until you have separated and you have some alone time.


Leave Them To It

As a parent, your instinct will be to constantly check up on them once they have moved away. But it’s important that you don’t! You need to give them the space to start enjoying their new life. This is ultimately for the benefit of both of you. Let them take the lead to contact you. The chances are, they will. They might have one or two lonely moments, and feel the need to call you. That is a perfectly healthy sign, so don’t worry. The important thing is to keep in contact without overdoing it.

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